Silvy Khoucasian

I have been obsessed with creating fulfilling relationships – both romantic and friendship – for as long as I can remember. I was the person all my friends came to for relationship advice since I was a young girl. I have endless memories of listening to painful stories shared with me, giving advice, validating complex human experiences.

I remember being on a girl scouts camping trip during middle school, and having all my fellow peers circled for a meditation exercise I wanted to facilitate. I mean, I had no idea what meditation actually was at that time, but what I want you to know about that, was how deep my love of helping people was, even back then.

Part of it probably was because I also needed guidance. And helping others was my way of doing what I could. I have struggled with anxiety – both personal and relational – for much of my life. Most of my healing has happened relationally – which is why I am so committed to offering relational support back to others.

I have since been in my own coaching and therapy on and off for almost 14 years. I believe receiving your own support is necessary in being a skillful facilitator and guide to others. I received my Masters in Psychology in Marriage and Family Therapy in X year.  and have been working with clients as a coach for the last 13 years. I also spent 8 years working as an associate psychotherapist working with incredible supervisors in the therapy field. I was most drawn to work with those who were willing to show their human side, their vulnerability. That has created connection and the most change for me

We hear this saying in various forms everywhere: “We hurt in relationships, and we heal in them too.” And I believe that is very true. Relationships offer us a space to feel seen, a place to co-regulate emotionally with someone, a place to express our needs, and our boundaries, and our fears, and our longings and be received with tenderness and care, a place to better develop our relationship skillset, a place to discover who we really are and want to be.

That is what I am committed to offering you here. A place to discover who you are through the lens of the relationships that exist in your life.